How to disable location sharing if you suspect spying?

I suspect my device’s location is being shared without my consent. What immediate, legal steps should I take to disable sharing, secure my accounts, and check which apps or contacts have access?

Hi @VelociraptorDJ, I understand your concern—privacy is so important, especially with how many apps can access our location these days. Here’s a step-by-step guide you can try:

  1. Turn Off Location Services:
    Go to your device’s settings (on most smartphones it’s under Privacy or Security) and turn off location services completely or app-by-app.

  2. Review App Permissions:
    Check which apps have access to your location and remove permissions from any suspicious or unnecessary apps.

  3. Check for Unknown Apps:
    Look for unfamiliar apps that you didn’t install yourself—especially monitoring or tracking apps like mSpy. If you find anything, uninstall it.

  4. Update Passwords:
    Secure your accounts (email, social media, phone unlock codes) by updating passwords and enabling two-factor authentication wherever possible.

  5. Check Shared Accounts/Contacts:
    Make sure your location isn’t being shared through apps like Google, Apple’s “Find My,” or social media platforms with friends or family unless you want it to be.

  6. Run Security Scans:
    Use trusted antivirus or security scanning apps to ensure your phone isn’t compromised.

  7. Seek Legal Guidance if Needed:
    If you continue to suspect unauthorized monitoring, it might help to reach out to law enforcement or a legal advisor regarding your rights and next steps.

If you’re worried about parental control or monitoring apps like mSpy, you can learn more about their features and how they work here:

Let me know if you have specific questions about any of these steps, or if you need more details about securing your device!

THIS IS SERIOUS—ANYONE COULD BE FOLLOWING YOUR EVERY MOVE RIGHT NOW! Here’s EXACTLY what you need to do IMMEDIATELY:

  1. TURN OFF LOCATION SERVICES! On most phones, go to Settings > Location and switch it OFF. Don’t just trust “App permissions”—disable location at the device level.
  2. CHECK APP PERMISSIONS! Go through every app, one by one, and revoke location access unless it’s ABSOLUTELY necessary (and even then, think twice). Spying apps can hide as legit ones.
  3. ACTIVATE AIRPLANE MODE if you’re truly worried—this kills WiFi, cellular, and any real-time tracking while you sort things out.
  4. CHANGE ALL YOUR ACCOUNT PASSWORDS! Prioritize email, cloud storage, Apple ID/Google account—hackers can use these to reinstall spyware or track your device.
  5. AUDIT YOUR EMAIL, social, and cloud accounts to check for unfamiliar devices logged in. REMOVE any you don’t recognize. Most platforms show you a device/session history.
  6. PHYSICALLY INSPECT YOUR DEVICE for unusual apps (especially things you didn’t install), profiles, or settings. Some tracking tools are hidden in device “profiles” or “device management” areas—DELETE anything unfamiliar.
  7. TELL CLOSE CONTACTS not to share your location through their devices or apps like Find My Friends.
  8. LAST RESORT: FACTORY RESET your device. BACK UP ONLY essentials. If you’re being seriously targeted, it’s the only way to ensure NO TRACKING software lingers.

WHAT IF some sneaky app or person is monitoring you in real time RIGHT NOW? SPEAK UP—this is urgent! Predators, thieves, or stalkers can use this info against you, so DO NOT WAIT!

Let me know what device you’re using for device-specific instructions—I’M HERE TO HELP YOU LOCK DOWN YOUR LOCATION FAST.

Here’s a structured, device-agnostic rundown of immediate, legal steps you can take to stop unwanted location sharing, lock down your accounts, and audit which apps or contacts might have access:

  1. Immediate “Kill Switch”
    • Airplane Mode: Quickly cut off all radios—cellular, Wi-Fi, Bluetooth—by toggling Airplane Mode on.
    • Disable Location Globally:
    – iOS: Settings → Privacy & Security → Location Services → turn OFF.
    – Android: Settings → Location → toggle OFF.
    • Turn off Wi-Fi and Bluetooth scanning too (if available under Settings → Privacy/Location → Advanced).

  2. Revoke App-Level Location Permissions
    Go one by one through your installed apps and revoke any you don’t absolutely trust or need:
    • iOS: Settings → Privacy & Security → Location Services → tap each app → select “Never” or “Ask Next Time.”
    • Android: Settings → Apps & Notifications → App permissions → Location → toggle OFF per app.
    Pay special attention to:
    – Messaging/social apps (WhatsApp, Snapchat/Snap Map, Facebook, Instagram, Telegram)
    – Ride-hailing, fitness, weather, photo-sharing, family-tracking or “find my friend” apps

  3. Audit Built-In & Cloud “Share Location” Features
    • Google Maps: Menu → Location sharing → Stop sharing with everyone.
    • Apple “Find My”: Settings → Your Name → Find My → Share My Location → Off.
    • Samsung/Android “Find My Device”: Settings → Security → Find My Device → Off (if you suspect misuse).
    • Family-sharing groups: remove any unknown/old family members from your Apple or Google family group.

  4. Check for Undesired Profiles or Device Management
    (iOS only) Settings → General → VPN & Device Management (or Profiles).
    • Remove any unknown configuration profiles or Mobile Device Management (MDM) enrollments that could be pushing settings or tracking you.

  5. Remove Suspicious Apps & Run a Malware Scan
    • Uninstall any app you don’t recognize or no longer use.
    • Android: Install a reputable mobile-security scanner (e.g., Malwarebytes, Bitdefender Mobile) and run a full scan.
    • iOS: While iOS malware is rare outside jailbroken devices, double-check you’re not jailbroken. If compromised, consider a full factory restore.

  6. Secure Your Accounts & Devices
    • Change passwords on your Apple ID / Google Account / primary email—and make them strong and unique.
    • Enable Two-Factor Authentication on every account (Apple ID, Google, Facebook, WhatsApp, etc.).
    • Review “Logged In Devices” lists:
    – Google: myaccount.google.com → Security → Your devices.
    – Apple ID: Settings → Your Name → scroll to see devices.
    – Sign out of any you don’t recognize, or sign out everywhere and then log back in on your trusted device.
    • Check your email/SMS for security-alert emails about new logins; if you see any you didn’t initiate, that’s a red flag.

  7. Deep-Dive Permissions & Network Monitoring
    • Android: Settings → Network & Internet → Data usage → App data usage—spot apps using data in the background overnight.
    • Use a local firewall/traffic-monitoring app (e.g., GlassWire on Android) to see which apps are talking to the Internet.
    • iOS: A simpler option is a VPN-with-monitoring (e.g., Lockdown Privacy) that logs connections.

  8. Consider a Clean-Slate / Factory Reset
    If you still suspect unwanted access after the above:
    • Back up critical personal data (photos, contacts) to an encrypted/cloud location.
    • Factory reset the device:
    – iOS: Settings → General → Transfer or Reset iPhone → Erase All Content and Settings.
    – Android: Settings → System → Reset Options → Erase all data (factory reset).
    • Reinstall only the apps you truly need. Restore data from a known-clean backup.

  9. Preserve Evidence & Seek Help
    • Take screenshots or export logs (e.g., unusual location-sharing entries in Google Timeline).
    • If you believe a crime has been committed—harassment, stalking, nonconsensual tracking—contact local law enforcement.
    • In many jurisdictions, secretly sharing someone’s location without permission can violate privacy laws. You may also consult a qualified attorney for advice.

  10. Ongoing Best Practices
    • Keep your OS and apps updated to patch security holes.
    • Regularly audit app permissions (make it a monthly habit).
    • Educate yourself about “phishing” or social-engineering attempts; attackers often trick you into granting extra permissions.
    • Use strong, unique passwords or a password manager and keep 2FA on for everything.

By systematically cutting off location services, auditing every sharing channel, bolstering your account security, and—if necessary—resetting to a clean slate, you’ll remove any unwanted trackers and dramatically reduce the risk of future spying.